Intimacy can be challenging if we don’t have some degree of emotional sobriety and balance. If we have no emotional language for talking over the kinds of deep feelings that intimacy inevitably brings up, we spend our time and energy avoiding the kinds of intimate moments that we’re afraid might expose our soft, emotional underbellies; [...]
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Forbidden Feelings – Learning to Manage Getting Triggered
Written By: Tian Dayton, Ph.D. Date: August 15th, 2010. Topic: Life and Recovery Coaching.Addiction Half-Truths: What Your Brain Doesn’t Want You to Know About Neuroscience
Written By: Dr. Kevin Fleming Date: August 5th, 2010. Topic: Neuroscience.As appeared on BehavioralHealthCentral.com, May 4, 2010
In this thought-provoking series, I will share the stuff of addiction that is in between the lines — the afterhours thoughts, if you will, the bubbles above our heads. Not that training, education and all sorts of counseling are not helpful. Of course they are. But in the understanding [...]
The Last Bus of the Night
Written By: Alan Downs, Ph.D. Date: August 5th, 2010. Topic: Recovery Stories.I stepped out into the fog that night not quite sure of what was next. The thick soup of San Francisco dampness that descends upon the city on most summer nights was particularly heavy, and I tripped over something on the sidewalk, but this night it didn’t really matter what it was. My mind was [...]
Living with Chronic Pain: One Day at a Time
Written By: Dr. Stephen F. Grinstead, LMFT, ACRPS, CADC-II Date: August 5th, 2010. Topic: Life and Recovery Coaching.Many self-help programs encourage its members to use the slogan “One Day at a Time.” The underlying purpose is to help members focus on what needs their time and attention in the here and now. It encourages people to let go of their obsession with the past and worry about what may or may not [...]
A Spiritual Seeker
Written By: Rev. Leo Booth Date: August 5th, 2010. Topic: Spirituality.I’ve been in Twelve Step recovery for many years and yet I’m still “a seeker”. What I mean by this is that from a young age I was never comfortable with a black-or-white answer; I loved exploring the gray areas of life.
Often I catch myself saying that I’m a Christian…and more. I never felt that [...]
Rational Thinking and Behavior Is Based On Obvious Fact
Written By: John Herdman, Ph.D., LADC, ICADC Date: August 5th, 2010. Topic: Chemical Dependency.The article that follows is an excerpt from my book, A Rational Workbook for Recovery From Addictions – Second Edition. After I lay a foundation of understanding for a client that includes Albert Ellis’ ABCs, I begin applying cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) skills and techniques to help a client make changes in feelings and behaviors. One [...]
Tell It to Me In Guy Language
Written By: Bud Williams Date: August 5th, 2010. Topic: Gender-Specific.What can a story about one particular parasite tell anyone — especially someone sitting in a spirituality group with just a few days of recovery— about Higher Power, spirituality, God? If a tiny parasite could potentially reach someone with a message about a Universal Intelligence, would men and women in the same situation respond to [...]
The Law of Sobriety
Written By: Sherry Gaba, LCSW Date: August 5th, 2010. Topic: Chemical Dependency.The Law of Sobriety takes the principles of the Law of Attraction and puts them to work for the specific purpose of helping individuals recover from their addictions, whatever that addiction might be, including alcohol, drugs, sex, gambling, food, co-dependency, love or shopping. However, in order to understand the Law of Sobriety, you need to [...]
View from the Hill
Written By: Andrew Kessler Date: August 5th, 2010. Topic: View from the Hill.In the spring of 2010, the Office of National Drug Control Policy (ONDCP) released its National Drug Control Strategy, the first such document released by the Obama White House. Although it was supposed to be released earlier in the year, it was delayed due to the passage of health care reform. The strategy lays out [...]
A Tribute to Charley Narcomey
Written By: RecoveryView.com Date: August 2nd, 2010. Topic: Spirituality.Josie and Jim Herndon would like to honor their dear friend and brother in spirit, Charley Narcomey, who God took for His own Sunday, June 27, 2010.
J. Charles Narcomey (Citizen Band Pottawatomi/Muscogee Creek) honored his heritage by incorporating traditional ways into every aspect of their lives. Charley and his wife, Sparrow, were called upon many times [...]
A Visit to Insight Intensive at Gold Lake
Written By: Insight Intensive at Gold Lake Date: August 1st, 2010. Topic: Member Profile Article.Visit by Kristie Campbell, August 2010
I understand that Canyon Drive is a much more scenic route to go, however, driving up the “back way” was a peacefully scenic path to get to Insight Intensive at Gold Lake. Insight Intensive is a 90-day residential mentoring program for young adult men, age 18 and older. All the [...]
The American Golfer
Written By: Astoria Pointe Date: August 1st, 2010. Topic: Member Profile Article.Astoria Pointe Business Development Director, Jenny Robinson, is proud to feature her father’s new book, “The American Golfer”.
By Ann Gibbons
Freeman staff
People who think they hear their arteries hardening when watching championship golf should just get over it and put some intrigue into their lives. That’s what Charlie Kingston does in author Anthony Robinson’s new novel, [...]







